So today, Sunday, September 30, is TBF’s birthday, Dear Readers.
I want to wish him many happy returns of the day.
As you may know, I think he’s smart, handsome, funny and a great driver.
(Very important.)
He’s probably very embarrassed right now because he is also low key, modest and self-effacing.
(All reasons why I like him.)
He’s also probably very surprised because earlier this summer, we broke up.
Are you shocked?
Yeah, our relationship had been a little rocky for awhile and…
Let’s just say that Life got in the way.
“Love”- at our age- does NOT necessarily conquer all.
But all the same, just let me say this.
Happy birthday, Sweetie.
Thank you for a wonderful two and a half years. I loved (almost) every minute of it.
Never forget that our relationship started with a handshake.
Let’s end it with one.
Blessings on you.
Always,
Ellen
ELLEN — I am surprised and disappointed to learn that your relationship with TBF ended. But I wish both of you the very best.
Take him to breakfast at Walker Bros. anyway. The pancakes, the omelettes and the corned beef hash are wonderful.
Send me today’s New York Times when you have finished.
Thanks, Jack. It kind of snuck up on us, too. I’ll pass on your breakfast recommendations. I agree with all your choices- and I would also add the Dutch Baby. Here’s wishing the best to all of us. 🥂
Ellen….sorry things didn’t quite work out for you and the BF. I don’t know about you, but at my age, I have a different view on relationships. I recently have had a split with someone who I have had an on again off again relationship for a few years. We enjoyed out of town weekends watching baseball games, concerts, and great food….but in my own mind knew I was not going to make a commitment and we both agreed….even to the point that I said if you find someone that moves you ….go for it. Well, about 3 weeks ago she told me she has met someone. We talked for quite a while and I told her I am truly happy for her….she is a great gal and deserves the best. She told me that deep down she had wished I was “the guy” but knew different. It was hard for me at first, but it is time for old Steve to move on and be happy for her.
I hear you, Steve. And we both know where you’re coming from. TBF and I wish each other- and you- nothing but happiness. It’s a cold, cruel world out there and it’s tough to go it alone. But we have to do what is right- not just what is easy.
All good things should last forever, but few or none ever do. Here’s to your next good thing.
Thanks, John. A great wish and I’ll drink to that. 🥂
Ellen—- just split from my BF. Very sad but probably the best thing. It was spectacular at times…but in the end it just wasn’t right. Thanks for writing this.
Oh, Barb. I’m so sorry. Painful, isn’t it? But as you say,it has to feel right. Best of luck to ALL of us. Thanks for sharing. 💔😘
Ellen. You won’t believe this but today is My brother ‘s birthday. He would have been 80.
I didn’t realize that, Sherry. There’s still a big hole in the universe left by Barry’s death. Hard even now to believe he’s gone.
Darn it, I’m sorry to read your relationship with TBF ended earlier this summer. Relationships with boyfriends or girlfriends are such hard work so many times they just don’t work. But it hurts when they don’t. I hope your heart has been healing fast.
It’s been kind of a roller coaster- all the emotions have come into play. Thanks, Susan, for your support. I’m looking forward to the future and hopefully, it will be a happy one.
Hi Ellen. Sorry for your loss but so glad you found a special person to warm your heart if even for only 2 1/2 years.
Thanks, Holly. I try to look at it that way, too. Hope you’re all doing great.
To me, this one was the best break-up song. Got drunk a few times to it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Mb9rnISHu4
Thanks, Barry. I can’t argue with the sentiment and now I need a drink! 🍹🍸🍺🍷🥃