Au Revoir, Mes Restaurants

I had the pleasure of dining at Booth One the other night.   You know, it’s the old Pump Room in the Ambassador East.  Now gussied up and brought into the age moderne by the folks at Lettuce Entertain You.

It even has the old white telephone upon which legends of the stage and screen used to gab.  It was the 1940’s version of the iPhone for VIP’s.

In its heyday, these were the types who got to sit in Booth One.

Bogie and Bacall weren’t there on the Monday night that we visited. But things were lively just the same.  Kevin Brown, the CEO of Lettuce Entertain You, was on hand.

So was R.J. Melman.  He’s son of the famed founder Rich- and now President of LEYE.

(The two work as partners now that the old man has kicked himself upstairs as Chairman.)

So much for the brass. The diners were an interesting mix of young and affluent and old and affluent.

No, Wagner and Wood were A.W.O.L but there was an eighty year old billionaire with his bottle blonde, fifty-something date to add a little je ne sais quoi to the atmosphere.

The dinner itself was delish.  I split an order of Beef Wellington and a chicken paillard.  The Wellington was so retro- and so good. Made absolutely decadent by its sauceboat of truffle bordelaise sauce. )

The paillard? Safe but serviceable.

And let me add that the Booth One chef really understands his vegetables.  My squash and mushroom side – along with the artichoke fritter and baby spinach salad that accompanied my chicken – were superb.  Really ooh la la.

The amuse bouche were mini Parker House-like rolls adorned with garlic butter, parmesan cheese and poppy seeds.  I ate one.  I could have eaten the entire platter. And btw, when I asked for ground pepper for my salad, the waiter brought out a small bowl filled with cracked pepper.  I haven’t seen that touch since Chasen’s closed and it was wonderful.

And the desserts were outstanding.  I don’t have a sweet tooth and dessert is my least favorite thing but the table’s two selections- the coconut chocolate cake and the nectarine upside down cake- were fabulous.

I had a wonderful evening.  But honesty compels me to admit that I miss the Old Pump Room and all its peacock-feathered, turban-wearing, theatrical coffee-pouring glory.

So glam. So NOT politically correct.

And that got me thinking of the other dearly departed French restaurants I used to love.

Hélas, they are adieux, mes amis.

Do you remember L’Epuisette?  It was probably my very first encounter with “grown up” fancy French food.  I remember trying sole Veronique for the first time there and feeling très audacieux.

It was opened in 1963.  I made it there in 1970.  And now it’s just a belle memory.

Along with these other French beauties.

Let’s start with the grand dame of them all.

Maxim’s.  Opened by Nancy Goldberg at 1300 North Astor Street in 1963.

I made a grand entrance à la Gigi on many a night at many a fête there.

And how I loved their Veal Orloff.

It closed in 1982.  I haven’t had Veal Orloff since.

And then there was Biggs at 1150 North Dearborn.  It first opened its elegant doors way back in 1954.  It was later acquired and renovated by Ray Castro in 1964.  Jovan Trboyevic was his Maitre D’.   (More about Jovan later.)

It was très elegant.  And remember the little individual soufflés?

Are you old enough to remember La Cheminée?  Opened by Burton Kallick in 1969 at the site of what used to be La Chaumière, it had a “rustic” French ambience.   Back then, when a guy wanted to impress you, he’d take you there- even though you could get a complete dinner for ten dollars

And now let’s welcome back Jovan with two kisses on the lips.

First, he opened the eponymous Jovan at 16 East Huron in 1967.

Then in 1972, he opened Le Perroquet on East Walton.  It was a temple of French “nouvelle Cuisine.”

And he followed that up in 1979 by starting a club privé, Les Nomades.

 

The only thing I can remember about it was that Jovan very much frowned on table-hopping.  I wasn’t much of a table-hopper but I only went there once or twice.

Another star on the Chicago French culinary scene made histoire gastronomique in 1973.

But he had to go all the way to Wheeling to do it.

That’s when and where Jean Banchet opened Le Français.

So much has been written about this temple to Fine French Food that my raves are de trop.    But i must admit that I could only eat there once a year.  It was so rich- ooh la la their lobster bisque- that I would have indigestion for a week après.

I know that I’m leaving out  so many places that were fabulous.  And they don’t exist any more.

Le Coq Au Vin, Maison Lafitte , L’Auberge on Clark,  L’Escargot in the Allerton Hotel, Chez Paul.

Quelle Dommage. 

I think I’ll let a maestro have the last French word.

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Cutting Corners

…So Dear Readers, I don’t know if you remember that I walk a lot.

I mean a lot.

Like everywhere.  I regularly walk to the Ogilvie Transportation Center- and that’s a good five miles from my house.

Anything less than that I consider a piece of cake.  Barely a stroll.

It’s a cheap gym and as I walk, I think.

I plan new posts, or have “discussions” with certain people in my life.  The process actually helps me straighten things out.  It sometimes forces me to face up to unpleasant truths or makes me realize that I’m in the wrong and it’s time to take ownership.

I use the time to meditate, too.

Thus I find the whole walking thing very soothing and I do it all year round- unless it’s one of those -9 Chicago winter days.

I know all my routes by heart and I’m kind of on auto-pilot as I traverse the city.

I know all the short cuts, too.  If it saves five or ten minutes to cut corners, I do it in a heartbeat.

(Provided it’s not snowing or raining and I have to think about my shoes.)

One of the corners I always cut is at Lakeview Avenue where it meets Fullerton.

I always cross over the intersection and head into the park.  It shortens the walk by five minutes for sure and I do it all the time.

Last week, Lincoln Park was still lush with early autumn foliage.  The grass was still springy and the leaves had just started to turn.  I was walking under a beautiful canopy of fall colors.

But as I walked under one of the tress, I heard a noise.

And as I turned around, I saw that a top branch from said tree had somehow sheared off- it wasn’t  even a real windy day- and this branch had crashed to the ground where I had just been walking only a nano second before.

Instantly my mind went here.

I remembered it only too clearly.  What a random and terrible act of Fate.

Talk about hearing “footsteps on your grave,” man.  I thought what if I had been one second slower or left the lunch one moment later?

I guess it just wasn’t my time to go.

I’d better use my “second chance” wisely.

Now here’s a brave woman who knows way too much about cheating Fate.

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A Star Is….Um…Talented

Spoiler Alert:  If you are not familiar with this movie’s plot, you’d better skip this post.

But come on!  Maybe you didn’t catch the 1937 Janet Gaynor/Fredric March version.

Or maybe you missed the 1954 classic Judy Garland/James Mason edition.

But surely you caught the overblown 1976 Barbra Streisand/Kris Kristofferson iteration.

On second thought, if you missed all three of these, you probably deserve to know what happens in the current Lady Gaga/Bradley Cooper re-telling.

In any case, I shall be brief.  The  movie’s plot- although now focussing on the music scene à la the ’76 version rather than on the Hollywood scene of the earlier versions- is pretty much the same.

Fading older star (B.C.)  brings highly-talented newcomer (L.G.) aboard to share his stage- and then his bed.  And then his life.

Bad stuff- drugs, booze, pills, public humiliation- happens to him.  Good stuff- high-powered agent, make-over, fly back-up dancers- happens to her.

Supportive BFF’s weigh in on their respective life/career journeys.  Sam Elliott and a woefully-underused Dave Chappelle for him.  Anthony Ramos and a very good (and unrecognizable) Andrew Dice Clay for her.

Bottom Line Movie Revue:  Bradley Cooper (who also directed) is a HUNK.

Those turquoise peepers!  That fabulous physique, that raspy voice, his on-stage charisma.  He is an irresistible magnet to the eye.

Lady G? Sorry, Dear Readers.  I have to go rogue now.

Talented?  Certainly.  Pipes amazing?  You bet. Singing chops for days.  Her acting ability?  Serviceable.  Believable.  An inspired casting choice. Beyoncé was originally attached to this project and when she failed to pan out, Lady Gaga stepped in.

But- and I’m putting on my flak jacket as I type this, I found her so homely that I couldn’t bear to look at her.

Bradley Cooper disagrees with me.  He went to  great directing lengths to show her in all her personal glory.

I wasn’t ready for her close-ups, Mr. DeMille.

Yes, yes, I realize that now is not the politically-correct time to call out another woman for her looks.

But I grew up in the era of Monroe and Loren, Hepburn (both of them) Ava Garner, Natalie Wood, Grace Kelly and Vivien Leigh.

Gloria Swanson had it EXACTLY right.

In summation, let me say that I like the concert scenes but I never bought the love story.  I just couldn’t believe that Jackson Maine could/would ever fall for a drab little wren like Ally.

Lady Gaga.  Don’t hate me because you’re not beautiful.

But Bradley, in case you’re reading this…

You can pass out on my couch any time.

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My Most Unforgettable Character

Reader’s Digest used to run a popular series entitled “The Most Unforgettable Character I Ever Met.”

For me, it’s no contest.

My most “unforgettable character” had to be my mother, Lea Roffe.

Hands down.

And this past Tuesday, October 16, would have been my mother’s 94th birthday.

(If she hadn’t deliberately offed herself at the age of 92 – because she was pissed that her driving privileges had been revoked.)

See what I mean?  She’s already a character and you probably didn’t even know her.

Unless you were a croupier or a dealer in Las Vegas or at Rivers.

While she was alive, it was hard to be objective about her.

She was a character straight out of grand opera- fiery temper, breath-taking beauty, crack card-player, clever intelligence and wild ambition all mixed up in a tempestuous package of dynamite.

She was jealous and petty, a grudge-holder.  Combative and ridiculously competitive.

 Une agente provocatrice. 

Boy, did she love attention.

The only problem was that she couldn’t tell negative attention from positive attention and she would force you to engage with her by hook or crook.

If she thought she was being ignored for even one minute, she would start making outrageous – and incredibly mean- remarks about friends or family members just to get a rise out of you.

No topic was sacred.  And if you did manage to tune out her outrageous pronouncements, she would “up the ante” until at last you were screaming at her.  In public, sadly.

A real monster.

Time has not mellowed out my recollections or unhappy memories of the life and death mano à mano struggle in which she and I were engaged.

She never liked me much.  I was too argumentative and not pliant enough to bend to her almighty will.  My earliest memories are always of this mother/daughter battle royale.  But she fought for the fun of it.  I fought to keep my identity alive.

And yet…

I can’t help but smile when I think of her.

Now that she’s gone and I don’t have to defend myself any more, I can sit back and remember some of her good traits.

Like how unique she was.

Like how ambitious she was for her children.  How she never gave up until she had her way.

How she always thought I could do anything.

And what fun she could be when she was in the right mood and before the demon of mental illness overtook her mind and twisted  into her a dark exaggeration of herself.

She loved my brother.  And I like to think she would have loved me, too- if she only knew how.

Happy birthday, Mom.

I know wherever you are you’re kicking ass and taking names.

Now here’s the ending I wish that we both could have had.

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The Picture of Dorian Gray

Hi, Dear Readers, I’m back.  And just in time.

Yesterday, October 13, was my brother Kenny’s 65th birthday.

Now everyone who knows me knows I love my little brother.  I look upon him as my first kid- not a sibling at all.  But this came as a big surprise to my mother.

You see when he was born, I was four years old.   Up until then, I had been a spoiled and doted-on only child and she was sure that I would be jealous of the new arrival.

Instead I took one look and I was thrilled.  I thought they had brought me home the cutest baby chimp ever and I was delighted with my new toy.

He looked just like this.

He even has a chimp’s bow legs.  (My dad always used to say that Kenny looked like a horse had run out from under him.)

I dragged him around with me everywhere.

(In the spirit of full disclosure, I remember handing him that stuffed animal.  That dog was mine.  Kenny never would have picked it up on his own.)

All he ever had in his hand was this.

I can never remember him as a kid when he wasn’t holding a ball of some kind.  He used to sleep with his mitt.

(Does he still do this, Mary Lu?)

He was my wing man when I got older, too.

Even as a teenager, he was never the pesky little brother my boyfriends wanted to shoo away.

If they wanted to date me, they had to know Kenny.

(This was not exactly hard duty, because some of them were counselors at Camp Ojibwa and once they discovered that he was a good athlete, they clamored for his services. They pretty much bribed him during the year so they could have him on their team during the ultra competitive Collegiate Week.)

Kenny was my partner in crime.  And he never ever used what he knew about me to get in dutch with my mother.

(Although he still maintains he has enough dirt on me to get me grounded today.)

These days however, one is struck with another thing about Kenny.

His appearance.

It never changes.

Well, maybe it has.

For the better.

He looks the same to me as he always did.  Preternaturally youthful. And he still loves playing hardball, too.  A great combination of heredity and hard work.

But if we both inherited our parents’ “skinny genes,” I sure got cheated in the hair department.

I’ve got ALL the Roffe gray hair.

Kenny doesn’t have one.

It’s a gyp but I love him just the same.

Happy birthday, little brother.  Wishing you many, many more years on your field of dreams.

Cheers.

And now, Dear Readers, as my birthday gift to you in honor of Kenny, please watch ALL of this clip.  It is one of the funniest shows that EVER appeared on television.

It’s an oldie but a goodie.

A classic.

Just like KSR.

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Breaking Up Is Hard To Do

Well, Dear Readers, if you read my last post you now know the news that TBF and I are kaput.

Ending things is an emotional business and thus I’m a little at sea. Hard to describe all the emotions I’m going through.

But sometimes, you can say it with music so I think I’ll let these clips do my work for me.

And there is this one.

And this one.

This one comes from one of my favorite “rock operas.” A classic.

I hope you’ll understand and forgive me when I say that I need a little time off from the blog. I’ve got to regroup and find myself again.

I guess I just need to start a new life before I can write about it.

So give me a little time.

I’ll see you back here same time same station on Sunday, October 14.  Please hang in there with me.

Until then, Dear Readers…

Avanti!

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A Hymn To Him

So today, Sunday, September 30, is TBF’s birthday, Dear Readers.

I want to wish him many happy returns of the day.

As you may know, I think he’s smart, handsome, funny and a great driver.

(Very important.)

He’s probably very embarrassed right now because he is also low key, modest and self-effacing.

(All reasons why I like him.)

He’s also probably very surprised because earlier this summer, we broke up.

Are you shocked?

Yeah, our relationship had been a little rocky for awhile and…

Let’s just say that Life got in the way.

“Love”- at our age- does NOT necessarily conquer all.

But all the same, just let me say this.

Happy birthday, Sweetie.

Thank you for a wonderful two and a half years.  I loved (almost) every minute of it.

Never forget that our relationship started with a handshake.

Let’s end it with one.

Blessings on you.

Always,

Ellen

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Love Story

Where do I begin?  Do I have to tell you who this is, Dear Readers?

She is one of my great girl crushes of ALL time-

Ali MacGraw.

Back in the 70’s she was the Fashion Girl of the Moment.  Her “boho chic” style made a huge impact on the world.

Here is her Time Magazine cover from 1971.

She made it fabulous to be a brunette.  And her fashion sense just knocked me out.

I had several of those little knit hats.  And scarves and bell bottoms.  And anything else La Belle Ali wore.  I loved her style.

Maybe the less said about her acting the better.

But oh, how she looked in Love Story.  I love her preppy cool(She went to Rosemary Hall, you know.  She came by this honestly.)

And The Getaway.

Her Halston ultra suede coat dress should have won the Oscar for “Best Dress.”

I was so fascinated with her that when her autobiography came out, I rushed to buy it.

It was frank and moving.

And sad.

Cold and diffident parents, alcoholism- which led to bad choices in men and career decisions- a devastating fire, all made for some very tough reading about a woman I had admired for so long.

But at age (almost) 80, she seems to have her act together.

And once again, she looks like the millions of bucks she left on the table when she divorced Steve McQueen.

My Ali is back! Gray, gorgeous and rockin’ the fashion world once more.

We’re in it for the long haul, my dear role model.  Thanks for reminding me.

And thanks for giving me the courage to keep on.

Loving you, Ali, means never having to say you’re sorry.

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Smoking Section

WARNING: Before you inhale this post, remember!

My mother started smoking, she told me, when she was fourteen.  That would have been in 1938.

Back in those days, everybody- except my father- did.

She smoked as a teenager, she smoked as a young married, she smoked when she was pregnant, she smoked when I was a kid.

I remember her doing it.

She probably saw ads like these on our Sentinel television set all the time.

And then on January 11, 1964 Dr. Luther Terry, the Surgeon General of the United States, released a report on the health consequences of smoking.

Here’s just an excerpt.

“…For the United States, this epidemic of smoking-caused disease in the twentieth century ranks among the greatest public health catastrophes of the century…”

(You can read more here if your’e so inclined.)

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My mother probably saw this news report.

She quit cold turkey the same day.

And of course, now, some fifty-four years later, I know we’re all on the same page.  Not only is smoking lethal- it’s a social taboo.

A real no no.  You want to feel like a pariah, an untouchable, a leper?

Try lighting a cigarette in Aspen.

But just because cigarette ads have all but been banished from our advertising landscape, it’s kind of fun to sit back and try to remember all the names of all the cigarette brands we once saw our parents, aunts, uncles, and older brothers and sisters light up.

See if any of these ring a bell.

(And don’t worry.  No second-hand smoke will be involved.)

Winston
Chesterfield
Camel
Salem
Newport
Kent
Malboro
Virginia Slims
Phillip Morris
L&M
Lucky Strikes
Old Gold
Benson and Hedges
Capri
Cool
Doral
Dunhill
Galoise and Gitanes (I was a big Jean-Paul Belmondo fan)
Lark
Pall Mall
Parliament
Tareyton
Viceroy

And what about recalling their slogans?

Does L.S.M.F.T sound familiar?

How about “Outstanding- And they mild?”

Doesn’t everybody know “Winston Tastes Good Like a Cigarette Should?”

Or “Call For Phillip Morris.”

And what about “You’ve Come A Long Way, Baby.”

Gosh, just writing this has given me a smoker’s cough.  Excuse me, Dear Readers, while I just quit.

I’m going cold turkey.

Now here’s the most famous “smoking”  scene in all of romantic moviedom.

Don’t forget your handkerchief- and your nicotine patch.

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September 20, 1975

Dearly Beloved Readers, the bride in this photograph is my sister-in-law Mary Lu Roffe, née Rubnitz.

The groom is my brother Kenneth Simon Roffe.

And today is their forty-third wedding anniversary.

Just in case you don’t recognize the rest of us, here’s the key to the wedding party above.

From Left to Right The Bridesmaids:

  1. Karen Rice Winner (partially obscured)
  2. Martha Frankel
  3. Yours Truly
  4. Lynn Cohen
  5. Suzie Berkowitz
  6. Laura Londoff
  7. Laurie Larson
  8. Toni Rosen
  9. Holly Hiller

From Left to Right The Groomsmen:

  1. Tommy Rubnitz
  2. Bob Rubnitz
  3. Grant Bagan
  4. David Matasar
  5. Barry Feldman
  6. Steve Rosen
  7. Scott Levenfeld
  8. Eddie Cohen
  9. Peter Rubnitz

Yes, the bride was beautiful.  And wore the most breath-taking wedding gown I had ever seen.  It should be in a museum with a glass case around it.

And yes, the groom had a real 70’s haircut.

(And yes, Camp Ojibwa represented.)

If a picture is worth a thousand words, let me add only these few more.

This wedding was a real blessed event for so many of us. Mary Lu and Kenny are a true “Power Couple.”  They have used that power generously for friends and family alike.  And together they have brought joy and happiness to everyone who has ever had the pleasure to have known them.

Congratulations, best wishes, and many, MANY more.

From your ever-lovin’ sister/sister-in-law,

Ellen

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